It’s too soon to lay blame except to the one who committed this evil but I know Julia Hudson is going to have to live through this the rest of her life. I can’t muster the sympathy right now because grown folks who refuse to see the warning signs get little love from me. I’m not going to pile on the sister because it is not the time if it ever is but this is a line all parents should remember:

Mother is the name for God on the lips of all children.

It’s sad. The childs mother has to feel terrible but again I can’t help saying she should have gotten rid of this dude the moment she found out about the carjacking. He looks crazy to me. When he was shown on the news with the family the night Jennifer received her oscar he looked like he wasn’t wrapped too tight. God bless her.

My friend and I were saying the same thing. How about getting a vibrator and calling it a day. How could he kill that baby??? My daughter is ten years old and at age seven she would still jump in my arms and want me to carry her like a baby. She still had baby fat on her cheeks. She had sophisticated conversation and sometimes I would forget how young she was until I she would occaisionally jump in my arms and want to hear the story of her birth.

This is a nightmare. I don’t know how a person even sleeps when their child is missing let alone is found dead. How do you get out of bed??

I know. I just can’t understand why anyone who is a parent would be that careless. My heart goes out to Jennifer. I can’t imagine what she is going through right now.

Some of the stories I’ve heard from some dudes make you wanna slap the cowboy b.s. out of them.

I was the same way when I started dating. I feel strongly about this subject since I had a family member who dated and moved in with a crazy fool who beat her and was mentally cruel to her child. It made me sick and everyone in the family begged her to leave him. He made death threats and was often violent. I blamed her for not protecting her child by exposing her to all those violent situations. Thank God she finally left him before he made good on some of his threats.

I can’t afford to jeopardize his mental or physical well-being like that.

Matthew Fudge,

This is a conversation that needs to take place at this time. People wake up and be selective when dating. Don’t bring a known fool into your family just because you are lonely.

I hope so. Sometime we need to be more selective. We all make mistakes but assaulting a stranger in a carjacking in my eyes is not a mistake I as a mother can overlook. Had 10 or 20 years gone by with this guy leading a productive life free from criminal activity, maybe. I’m sure this fool gave the family all kinds of grief in the past.

Jennifer Hudson and her family have to lean on God right now, even if they don’t have the answers. ESPECIALLY if they don’t have the answers. Just know that He’ll never leave you nor forsake you (Heb 13:5).